FAQs

What else do I need to know? - Frequently Asked Questions

1. What is Advance Care Planning?
Advance Care Planning is a thoughtful process to plan for future healthcare choices, involving personal reflection and discussions about medical treatment preferences. Along with these important discussions, advance care planning involves putting your decisions for healthcare in a written document called an advance directive.

2. Why should I have an Advance Care Plan?
By establishing an Advance Care Plan while you are well, you can make sure that your wishes are honored late, should you become unable to speak for yourself.

3. Why should I choose the Project GRACE Advance Directive (Living Will)?
The Project GRACE Advance Directive is used by many hospital systems across the country.  It is acceptable to doctors and easily understood by the public.  Copies can be obtained, free of charge by printing the directive from this website or by contacting our office at 727-536-7364.  

4. Does an Advance Care Plan encourage my death?
NO. You are not signing an agreement that says that you wish to die. You are making a choice for the future, about medical treatment (artificial ventilation and/or nutrition, surgery, antibiotics) when there is little or no hope for recovery.

The Advance Care Plan becomes active ONLY when you cannot tell your doctor and loved ones what your choices are about medical treatments.

5. How can I make sure that my wishes are followed?
Your Advance Care Plan should be part of your medical record. It should be readily available to doctors and other healthcare providers. They are obligated to follow your instructions. It is important to include your Healthcare Surrogate(s) in your planning, keeping them informed of your wishes, and providing them with a copy of your Advance Directive.

6. I have several doctors. With whom should I discuss my Advance Directive (Living Will)?
Dependent upon your illnesses, any or all of your doctors may be involved in your care if you reach a condition in which your Advance Directive is needed. Treatment recommendations and decisions are often made through agreement of several doctors. You should discuss and give copies of your Advance Directive to all of your physicians, especially your primary care physician.

7. How should I choose my Healthcare Surrogate?
This is a very important question. Your Healthcare Surrogate will speak for you when you are unable to speak for yourself. You must choose your Healthcare Surrogate carefully, and then share your choices for medical treatment near the end of life with that person. You want to be sure that your Healthcare Surrogate is easily accessible by the medical team, and is a person that you can count on to honor and communicate your personal wishes. Most people choose the individual(s) they know best, such as their closest relative(s) or friend(s). Some individuals prefer a family member or friend because of their knowledge of medical situations. In such circumstances, it is best to explain this choice to your nearest relative, who might expect to act as your surrogate. This will help to avoid conflict or misunderstanding later.

8. Are there conditions when my expressed wishes may not be honored?
Yes. Even though your Advance Directive is a legal document, your physicians and surrogates are ultimately responsible for interpreting and carrying out your choices for you when you are no longer able to communicate your choices. These decisions are sometimes difficult and require judgment. When there is a question, they must serve you according to the spirit of your instructions. It is the legal responsibility of your physicians and healthcare providers to honor the choices of the dying for end-of-life care. The clearer your Advance Directive is, and the better you communicate its contents to your physicians and surrogates, the more likely they are to be able to follow your exact wishes. For example, when a condition involves some but very little chance of recovery, or when a treatment involves significant risk or added suffering with low potential for benefit, your surrogate will be required to make value judgments on your behalf after full medical advice from your physicians.

9. Why have doctors had difficulty following Advance Directives?
Many living wills ask doctors not to perform "heroic measures" or "use artificial means of treatment." These and other vague statements, such as "terminal condition" or "if death is expected", have no clear meaning. Some documents ask doctors to certify that there is no hope for improvement. These terms and phrases prompt doctors to do more medical procedures, not less. A clearly written Advance Care Plan and personal discussion with your doctor and family is your best assurance that your wishes will be followed.

10. Why would anyone want "No CPR?" Isn't that a form of suicide?
No. The success rate of cardiopulmonary resuscitation (CPR) is much less than people think.

  • For individuals over 60 years of age, the success rate of CPR in hospitalized patients is 10 to 15%.
  • For victims of heart arrest outside a hospital, CPR is successful only 3 to 5% of the time.
  • For those over age 85, the success rate is 3% for patients who suffer a heart attack in a hospital and only 1 in 100 victims survive if the arrest occurs outside a hospital.

For a dying individual, cardiac arrest with no attempt at resuscitation (which is typically painless, like going to sleep or passing out), is usually the most merciful method of dying. By saying that one does not want CPR when death is near, one says that, "when my time comes I do not want to prevent the natural way of dying."

Many patients dying from cancer, terminal heart or lung disease, or with Alzheimer's disease, or individuals who are healthy but have reached an advanced age, may not want doctors to prevent them from dying a natural, peaceful death. Their choices may include a "Do Not Attempt Resuscitation" (DNAR) order.

11. If I have an Advance Directive, does that automatically mean that I won't be resuscitated if my heart and lungs stop?
NO. Medical personnel will ALWAYS attempt resuscitation UNLESS you have been identified as being in a condition that YOU have listed in your Advance Directive that you have chosen not to be resuscitated for.

Decisions regarding CPR should always be discussed with your physician. If you do not want CPR, you should ask your doctor for a "Do Not Attempt Resuscitation" (DNAR) order to be entered in your hospital medical record. Currently, in the State of Florida, a separate form (DH Form 1896) must be signed by you (or your health care surrogate, if you are unable to sign), and by your physician. That form must be with you at all times to ensure that CPR will not be performed in a non-hospital situation.

12. Where can I get the Florida Do Not Resuscitate Order Form (DH Form 1896)?
Your physician should be able to provide you with the Form, or you may contact Project GRACE to obtain one. Remember, you must also have your doctor sign the Form to prevent unwanted CPR outside of the hospital.


13. If something happens to me while I am away from home, how can I be sure that my choices for medical care are honored?
Currently, the best assurance that your wishes will be honored is to provide a copy of your Advance Directive to your Healthcare Surrogate, close family members, your attorney, any doctors that participate in your medical care (including doctors outside the State of Florida), and the hospital of choice closest to where you live. If you spend some time in other States, you should be sure your Advance Directive is recognized as legal in those States (most States accept the Project GRACE document). You should carry a copy of your Advance Directive with you when traveling.

14. What if I am really sick, but there is a chance that I can "beat it?"
Advance Directives come into use ONLY under certain conditions when one reaches a stage in life where you can no longer think and communicate and when it is clear that you have little or no chance of recovery. Advance Directives do not apply when there is a chance for recovery.

In the State of Florida, the patient's physician must determine the patient's condition cannot be made any better before life-prolonging procedures may be withheld or withdrawn. Your requests to withhold treatments in your Advance Directive do not apply when there is a reasonable chance of cure or improvement that allows you to recover to a meaningful life. Doctors are trained to fight illness and death and tend to err on the side of continuing aggressive, curative efforts until they find out that you have no chance of recovery.

15. Why would I not want a feeding tube with artificial feedings at the end-of-life when I can no longer eat? Wouldn't I "starve to death"?
A feeding tube is a small tube placed through the nose and into the stomach to deliver artificial liquid feedings. A more permanent form of feeding tube that is placed through the wall of the abdomen and the stomach is called a gastric tube. Putting in a gastric tube is a surgical procedure. In most cases, people stop eating and drinking because the dying body no longer has a need to do so. People who are permanently unconscious, in a vegetative state, or who have end-stage dementia (permanent, severe confusion) lose all feeling of thirst or hunger. There is no medical evidence that not using a feeding tube with artificial feedings leads to a more painful death. In fact, the research says just the opposite. Artificial feedings through a tube may prolong dying and make it more uncomfortable.

16. What about fluids given by the vein?
Many dying patients are totally unaware, and do not suffer from anything. Fluids delivered through a small plastic tube inserted into a vein consist of sterile water and sugar. When the body prepares itself to die, intravenous fluids are not necessary and may cause discomfort. In patients who have any awareness, sips of water or ice chips, lubricated lips and good mouth care are enough to relieve a dry mouth and to provide comfort.

17. When should I prepare an Advance Directive?
The sooner, the better for all persons over the age of 18 years. No one can know when an accident or disease may make one unable to state his or her personal choices.

18. What if I change my mind?
Advance Directives are never final until capacity to make decisions is lost. Everyone has the right to change their document at any time. Simply complete a new document and provide your doctors with the updated version. Also, you should contact ALL persons previously notified of your wishes and provide them with your revised copy of the Advance Directive. To avoid confusion, it is wise to destroy out-dated documents.

19. Do I need to have my document notarized or witnessed by a lawyer?
If you are a Florida resident, it is not necessary to notarize your Advance Directive or have a lawyer involved to complete the document. It is required that the document signatures be witnessed by any two competent adults, other than your designated surrogate(s) and one witness should not be your spouse or a blood relative. It is best to have someone witness the document who is neither your heir, your family member nor your healthcare provider.

20. How often should I revise my Advance Directive?
Advances in medical science happen all the time and the laws about Advance Directives can change within the state and across the nation. It is wise to discuss your plan with your primary doctor every few years or whenever you have questions.

21. What do I do with my Advance Directive after I complete the form?
After your Advance Directive is completed, make certain you have signed and dated the form. Always keep your original document along with your other important legal papers. Provide your hospital with a copy each and every time you are admitted to the hospital. In addition, we recommend that you provide your regular physician or physician specialist with a copy. To be safe, you should provide a copy to any doctor who participates in your care. You should discuss your choices and goals for care at end-of-life in detail with your designated health care surrogate(s) as well as provide them with a copy of your Advance Directive.

22. What should my family know?

  • They must know your wishes regarding healthcare. That is the only way they can be expected to honor your personal choices near the end of life, and at the same time show their respect and love for you.  
  • Medicine's mission is to add years and quality to life for as long as possible. When cure of a fatal condition is not possible, providing comfort and dignity to the dying is the proper care.
  • No Advance directive can be all-inclusive or long enough to provide for all situations. Discussions about death and end-of-life issues are often avoided in American culture. However, an open, detailed discussion with your family and physicians is the best way to ensure that your choices will be understood and honored.

Family members may wish to have more information about making decisions for end-of-life medical care. They may contact Project GRACE for information.

23. Should I tell others about my Advance Directive?
If you believe that having an Advance Directive is important and beneficial to you, we encourage you to discuss it openly with others and recommend they discuss their choices with their physician as well as complete an Advance Directive of their own. You may wish to refer others to Project GRACE for further information.

24. What is the difference between a Living Will and a legal will?
A Living Will should not be confused with a person's legal will, which disposes of personal property on or after his or her death.

Helping families create, communicate, and honor future medical care wishes.